Help! another annoying tire question sorry
 

I have a 04 4runner 2wd stock. Daily driver vehicle, no off-road but my crazy redneck family is all into it so they want me to get an A/T tire anyway. I am kinda yuppie myself but I have my moments.... Anyway, I can't decide between the Firestone Destination LE or the Nitto Terra Grappler. 265/70r17. Price wise, I can get the Destinations for $640 with road hazard installed and another tire store said they will match that for the Nittos but no road hazard incuded. I hear the Nittos are noisy but they look cool. Both get good ratings online. Need tread longevity since I am not rich enough to be buying tires frequently. Anybody want to make the decision for me????